A Life in Words

How I met your mother... A great T.V. show... It's mostly a comedy but every now and then it will shock you with some in depth, heartfelt moment that makes you sigh and smile or feel like you just got hit by a truck. I think those type of shows always make you feel that way because it is such an unexpected shocker when they hit you with an emotional hammer. This particular episode says "Being a couple is hard. Committing and making sacrifices is hard. But if its the right person its easy. Looking at that girl and knowing that she is the only thing you ever really wanted out of life should be the easiest thing in the world. And if it's not like that, then she's not the one." At first glance my mind says that all of those things are hard but when your with the right person they are actually pretty easy. But after thinking about it for a little bit I don't think that thought is right at all. Being in a relationship or being a couple is difficult and having to give things up, compromise and making sacrifices is hard and it will always be hard. But if you are doing it for the person, the person that means the world to you making the decision to go through those difficulties is the easiest decision to make. Life is tough but we push through... Jobs are annoying but we keep going. Loving someone... Loving someone is hard but when its the right person you would make that leap time and time again never knowing if your going to be caught or able to catch yourself. When we love, when we really love, we love with courage. We love with an intense drive and an overflowing passion. And if we don't, if we are missing those moments... We are missing everything.